Start here — private concern

Someone I care about may need support

First, write down what you have noticed. This creates a private note for you — not a flare, not a circle, and nobody is contacted. You can leave it here for as long as you need.

Start with a private note. Nothing moves forward unless you choose it.

  1. 1Write a private note
  2. 2Choose whether to raise a flare
  3. 3Map their existing connections

Private · only you can see this

No pathways, no relays, no circle. Just a note.

Ordinary words are best. This text stays private to you even if you later raise a flare — it is never sent to anyone.

Stopping here is fine

Most people sit with a worry for weeks before doing anything. A saved concern is not a half-finished task — it is a resting place. Nothing happens until you decide it should.

Your private notes